Author: Yajaira

Then and Now Meme

Stolen from Kitty.

20 years ago:
I was 3. I have little flashes of memories of playing in my great-gramma’s house while my mom was doing laundry. I remember my mom bathing me in the sink. I remember certain books that I used to read (well, that I’d look through the pages of LOL).

15 years ago:
I was 8. I was in 3rd grade and I loved school. This was the first time I’d ever had an “enemy” (the other smart girl in the class constantly competed with me, but at the same time we were friends and then ended up hating each other). It was the first time I’d had my heart broken by a boy and the first time I’d ever kissed a boy on the cheek (my friend Lazaro LOL).

10 years ago:
I was 13. My mom and dad were completely separated by this time. We realized that that was it; he was never coming back and basically we could have cared less. I had the best friends in the world at this time: Sally, Vero, Dayse, Jessica, and Angie.

5 years ago:
I was 18. I was already married and a mother to a 1 year old. I was working at Old Navy—my first job ever.

3 years ago:
I was 20 and had just had my 2nd baby. I was a stay at home mom and loved being at home with my kids.

Last Year:
My Gramma got really sick and was admitted to the hospital. She was later put into a nursing home, as she would receive ’round the clock care. As a result, my Mom and brother moved out of their apartment (which was right next door) to my Aunt’s house. Mario also lost his job in April, and then got his dream job in November before his birthday.

This Year:
Eenan’s in 1st grade, and Jaylen’s 3. I finally got my license in June and started attending college in July. I also met 3 wonderful girls: Ricci, Lucy and Mayra. As hectic as it is, I’m loving life right now .

Yesterday:
Had a Girl’s Day Out with Sonia, Noelia, Elda and Mary.

Last Night:
Spent some time with Mario, then fell asleep reading Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire

Today:
Dropped Mario off at work, am doing laundry and am online. Got a few errands to run later on.

Tomorrow:
Back to school. Then I have to go to the bank and I’ve got some calls to make.

Next Year:
I’ll, God-willingly, be graduating in April and will hopefully find a great job in the weeks/months after that.

Five-Ten years from now:
I hope and pray that Mario and I either bought, or are buying our dream home. I hope we’re loving our jobs/careers and that hopefully, maybe we’re trying for our little daughter .

People I want to pass this on to: Who ever wants to do it!

New Skin! Autumn!

It’s really simple, but I made a new layout. I’m really looking foward to fall, but since I live in south Texas we don’t get to enjoy the trees changing colors, SO, I made this layout. The top image changes. I really like it .

Back to school tomorrow. I love it, don’t get me wrong, but I’m not looking foward to sleeping only 5-6 hours tonight. Blah.

Spent yesterday just lying on the couch reading Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban. Got more than half-way through. Can’t wait to finish it!

Today we went to Peter Piper Pizza, where the kids acted up a little, but we had a nice time anyway.

I’m 30 minutes late in starting dinner, so I guess this’ll be all for now.

[edit] Having some issues with Firefox and Netscape, but it’ll have to wait till…who knows?[/edit]

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Daily Adventures & Three Little Kittens

This is why I stopped watching CMT.

I’m watching the top 20 Count Down and holy moly, I’ve got a lump in my throat. All the songs are so touching, but extremely depressing . Watch the video for “Somebody’s Hero” by Jamie O’neil and you’ll be crying like a baby. *sobs*

I’ve done a lot the past few days, aside from going to school. Mostly having to do with me driving around like a maniac after school (with poor Ricci in tow) since I have thousands of errands to run every day.

On Wednesday, I had to pick Mom up from the Social Security office, take her to pick up some stuff at Wal-mart, we stopped by to see Gramma for a few minutes, and then I had to drop her off allll the way to her house. Then I had to drop Ricci off and pick up Eenan.

Thursday, we were relieved I didn’t have anything to do. On the way home, when we were driving through Mission, I get a call from Mary saying her van died on her and if I could turn back and pick her up. Went back (in the pouring rain), Ricci and I laughing, blushing, and joking about things a husband and wife do together. Since I was on the phone, Mary took over driving and drove to make a payment (she was on her way over there during her lunch hour when the van died), bought some transmission oil, went to the bank and she filled my gas tank. (Since the rise in gas prices, my tank now fills with about $27, and this is a compact car!)

Ricci drove on the way to Mary’s van, where she was going to add the transmission fluid and we were going to follow her to her office and made sure she made it there. I didn’t want to drive because it was flooding and was about to storm heavily, and I’m still a bit traumatized from the time Sonia and Noelia got into that car accident about 6 years ago when it was raining. On the way over to Mary’s office, we saw at least 3 car accidents—craziness.

After school yesterday, Ricci and I went grocery shopping and didn’t realize how late it was when we were done so I had to rush to drop her and her groceries off, then go straight to Eenan’s school and pick him up.

Today, I am taking it easy. Mario took the car, so I’m chilling out at home wearing my “I’m not doing shit today” shirt, as John calls it. (My “I’m not doing shit today shirt” is usually a shirt about 3 sizes too big for me accompanied by boxers that I wear to sloth around the house.) I had bills to pay, but I guess it’ll wait till Tuesday. 3-day weekend baby!

I’ll probably take some time to study for my Certification Exam. I did the 2002 practice Expert Exam and got an 89, which I guess is good since some of the questions were totally different from how we’d do something in the 2003. The two girls who took the exam a few days ago didn’t pass. I think I heard the teacher say they were about 45 points away from passing. I’m hoping and praying that, even if I can’t pass with a 1000 like I’d like to, that I at least pass with the least amount of points required to pass, which is 630. I really want my Masters in Microsoft!

The whole situation with Eenan and school is basically the same. Elda volunteered to drop him off in the mornings with Sammy and Brandon. It’s a great idea since he’ll be there later, and there’ll be more kids there and hopefully he won’t feel as inclined to cry with Sammy and Brandon around. I still need to talk with someone about maybe switching him to a different class. I felt so miserable on Friday when he told me while climbing into the car after school that he only had one friend. And that one friend is the one who swung him from his sweatshirt and made him fall on his back . I hope his year gets better very soon.

We went to visit Jorge and Maggie last night. They’re holding up okay. They’re making plans on what to do and Jorge may already have a new job lined up with a relative. I’m so glad. Jorge doesn’t ever want to go back to doing audio/video auto work again .

On a lighter note, we have 3 more additions to the family. Well, for now anyway. Brushka went into labor on Wednesday afternoon, right after I’d come home from dropping Mom and Ricci off. I didn’t even think she was ready to deliver yet, she still looked small!

John said she was walking around, very apprehensively all day and when I got home, she immediately lay down on her side and her stomach started contracting. I barely had time to sit down (and turn on the camera!), when she started pushing the first baby out. His name is Dewey Enchilirido (John’s name choice, not mine!). He looks almost exactly like Brushka, except he doesn’t have a cream-colored belly. The second one born is a girl, and her name’s Tippy, since the tip of her tail (and paws!) are white. The third one’s a girl too, looks almost exactly like Tippy, but we haven’t come up with a name for her yet. John’s keeping Dewey, Sonia might take one of the kittens and I’m not sure who the third’s going to yet. As much as I’d LOVE to keep them ALL, we can’t. We already have too many cats *sniff*.

Brushka did a fabulous job for being a first-time mom. I had to frantically search online for what to do, since she didn’t know what to do about the umbilical cord. I read on several sites to tightly knot some floss or thread about an inch away from the belly, and cut with scissors, so I did, and they’re ok! She loves her babies; she’s so dedicated! She’ll eat, drink water, go to the bathroom in her litter box and then immediately goes back to her children. I’m so happy !

I’m going to finish this coffee and then, I shall watch TV. Or read. Or surf the ‘net. Oh the possibilities! I never thought I’d be happy to just be home!

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