Category: Events

All About the Little Men

Friday was a pretty laid-back day for Mario and I. I took Jaylen and Eenan to school in the morning and spoke to Eenan’s teacher. When I picked Eenan up from school the day before he’d told me his substitute was a total bitch with him (though not in those words, LOL). Turns out she’s the mother of a student Eenan knows and who knows why, but she had it in for Eenan.

First, a boy kept bothering Eenan; writing his name over and over again on an invitation list. They don’t get along to begin with, but when Eenan had had enough, he scribbled his name off the list. Eenan was wrong in doing that but the boy kept insisting. When Eenan crossed his name out again the boy screamed and Eenan took the heat for it.

Second thing that happened was a boy named Rolando–who has the highest amount of books read in the class–went into Eenan’s desk and tossed his whole pack of notebook paper into the air. Eenan had no idea what happened; I asked him over and over again if he did anything to provoke him and he said no. So what does the substitute do? She asks them both, Eenan and Rolando, to pick up the papers. Rolando refuses to, so she makes Eenan do it himself. Eenan’s friend Christian is thankfully nice enough to help him. My question is: why the hell should Eenan pick it up if he had nothing to do with it???

I went to the teacher with all these complaints the next morning and she listened patiently. She told me she had a list of students that “misbehaved” according to the sub, but she’d speak to them individually. She said she’d especially speak to Rolando, since he was wrong and she’s repeatedly told them they should stay away from others’ desks.

I’m so glad she was so understanding. I asked Eenan if he was left out of free-time or if he wasn’t going to attended the Good-Life Celebration (a big festival they have for them at the end of each 6 weeks if they’ve behaved well in class and have good grades) because the sub told him he wasn’t going. He said no and that she didn’t mention anything about the Good-Life. Mrs. R. didn’t even talk to him about anything, which he was terrified she’d do. When I was walking him to the class in the morning before I spoke with her, she saw him and asked, “Where’s my Eenan? Are you hiding, Eenan? I know why you’re hiding.” But she was really cool about everything.

My poor boy. If I ever run into that bully of a woman or if she ever subs for their class again I’ll definitely have a word with her. How dare she pick on a child? Or choose sides with the kids, y’know?

I ran into Brandon and Elda when I was approaching my street on the way home (she didn’t have a car that morning) so I gave Brandon a ride to school and then came home. I sneaked back into bed where Mario was still peacefully sleeping and we slept till around 10:30. The phones didn’t ring or anything, but I kept waking up every half an hour since I’m so paranoid that I’ll be late to pickup the kids.

We were starving and Mario saw how tired I was so he suggested rushing to Whataburger while they were still serving breakfast. We had some delicious sausage biscuits and a cinnamon roll. OMG–I crave those rolls every single day. I want one right now! *drool*

The kiddos played in the room while we finished giving the bedroom doors and hallway entrance another coat of paint. Mario finally also closed up that 1×1 ft. square hole he’d made in the wall to accommodate the wiring for the surround sound. God it was ugly–I’m so glad he finally patched it up after what? A month?!

We picked up Brandon and Eenan after that and got all the kids in the car to drop off movie rentals and some junk at storage. The kids got a few (okay, more than they should have!) toys out of their bins since they took a bag over there of stuff that was old or that they didn’t play with anymore. We’d already fed the littlest ones fish sticks at home and Eenan wanted fish sticks too, but since Mario and I were starving we picked up $1 double cheeseburgers at McDonald’s (I ate so much junk that day!). And there was a hair or some kind of suspicious lint in our $1 fries. Why the heck do we keep going back there?! *gag*

We chilled out the rest of the day until around 7pm when Mario was going to pick up a drill Ricky was buying from a friend of Mario’s. I was bored so I went with him while the kids watched movies with Mom.

Since the guy was all the way in Weslaco we stopped by Jorge’s for a while. He told us about the headaches he’s been having and how the doctor told him to take it easy or he’d end up with high blood pressure. I told him we’re getting old since doctors are warning us about stuff like that already. These days you just can’t be too sure. It’s so scary :(.

We went through the “backroad”, which is Old 83, and found a gas station at the corner of Old 83 and Greene Road that had gas for $2.16. You can bet your buttons I told Mario to stop after stopping by his friend Manny’s so we could fill up the truck. That’s the cheapest I’ve seen it!

In my previous entry I’d written how I didn’t want to do anything all weekend except stay in with the boys. Well, that was out the window when Jaylen’s friend Karlyn invited him to his first non-relative-friend party! He was so excited I had to take him. He clutched onto that invitation all day yesterday and today LOL. I invited Mom and Mary to go with me and they did. We got ready then left at 1:30. We stopped by Target to pick up Karyln’s gift–a Bratz doll. My gosh, I felt the impulse to start buying a whole bunch of them for Alaethia; those dolls are so cute! I wish I had toys like that when I was little…darnit.

Mary got the kids some toys and I had the pleasure of putting together a Star Wars Lego thing for Eenan. I was feeling horrible for stupidly skipping lunch (I have no idea what went through me) so I was irritable, dizzy, shaky and HOT. I had the air conditioning on full blast and I still felt terrible. It’s so weird how hot I feel this pregnancy compared to the others. I didn’t feel this way till around 8 months with the boys.

We stopped by Michael’s and Bealls since Mary needed to return stuff and then went to see Gramma for a while. Then we lectured Eenan on how lucky is he to have all the things he does and that he needs to quit being a brat (he was throwing fits left and right for every little thing) on the way to the party. When we got there we got a call from Noelia that my friend Jessica stopped by. I know lots of Jessicas and she didn’t leave her last name so Noelia described her–it was Jessica M.! I can’t believe I wasn’t home when she stopped by. Wish she would have called though, so she wouldn’t have made the trip out here for nothing :(.

The kids had so much fun, even though Eenan was grumpy and whiny for most of the time we were there. Jason, Mireya and Brianna went also since Brianna’s Karlyn’s friend, too. I spoke with Karlyn’s mom for a while; we’d already met before I just can’t remember where. She said she *had* to invite Jaylen since she’s always saying he’s her best friend–aww!

The only ride they got on was the bumper boats, but they had so much fun. Jaylen was 3 inches too small to get on by himself (Eenan was exaclty 44″ and could go on) and they wouldn’t let me on since I’m pregnant, so Mary went with him. By the time the ride was over (and let me tell you, it was long!) all three of them were SOAKED. Mary’s mascara was running and everything LOL. Only two other little boys were in there with them and they were having so much fun spraying Mary, probably because she’s a lady LOL.

All 3 of the kids had so much fun hitting the Cinderella piñata. Eenan was the oldest there and ended up breaking it. He was hilarious though–I regret not taking video! He practically jousted her in the butt with the stick and then reached his hand in there and pulled the candy out. Everyone was cracking up. I need to upload the pictures I did take to my Flickr tomorrow. I must go now, as I have this warm, delicious cinnamon roll from Whataburger my love picked up for me on the way home from work <3.

And the Baby Is…

A GIRL!!!

As I assumed I didn’t sleep very well last night. I kept having these mini-dreams where I was getting an ultrasound done and everytime the doctor was about to tell me what the baby was I had to get up to go pee O_o. I woke up half an hour earlier than I set my alarm and practically waited at the edge of the bed to shake Mario awake so we could leave.

They took us in right away and took my vitals. Blood pressure was good, weight was the same (125.2), urine was normal. Have a slight cold (yuck) but other than that I’m good. They took us in to the sono room and Dr. C got started right away. He took measurements of the baby’s head and torso and she’s measuring at 15 weeks 1 day, so that bumps my due date to January 30th instead of 28th. I didn’t see how many beats per minute the heart was beating at but Dr. C said it was great. We asked if he could possibly tell what the baby was and he looked around until he saw her little legs. He said, “Ah ha! There! You’re having a….girl! I’m almost positive. See those two little lines?”

The sucky thing was he wasn’t recording at that time for some reason so we didn’t get a picture of her little “peach”, but we did get two of her face.

Mario affectionately reffered to her as “The Punisher” LOL.

I can’t tell you how happy I am! I feel like I’m floating. When Dr. C told us tears immediately started flowing out. I look at Mario and he had a goofy grin on his face. I started calling everyone as soon as we got home. I still need to make more calls. Mary, the ladies at Mary’s office and Yadira squealed with happiness :P.

Now I can get all those little dresses I’ve been drawn to at every store that has clothing in it. Now I have someone to pass my collections on to! Now my family will feel complete :).

School Shopping & Parties

First, a very Happy Birthday and 4th Anniversary to Mayra!!

The First Thursday we went to wasn’t at the Civic Center. I found out it was in the City Hall parking lot. How I mixed those two up I have no idea.

It was pretty cool. There was a Sound Off and everything. The boys behaved wonderfully the first half of the time there, then when they started complaining we whipped out the Gameboys and they were angels again.

Amplified

That’s one of the trucks that belongs to the company Mario works for.

Mario got paid Friday so the first thing we did was cash his check and then had lunch at Long John Silvers. I could go for some LJS right now *drool*. The boys ate almost all their food and I’d been craving a crabby patty so I got one of those along with my meal (are they just called crab patties? I can’t help thing of Spongebob.)

They also had these cool little hats and I had the boys take pictures. As you can see, Eenan had been crying before so he’s got a shiny tear at the corner of his eye and tear spots on his shirt.

Arr, Matey

Arr, Matey 2

We took the boys clothes shopping after lunch. The crowds weren’t so bad for being tax-free weekend. We usually don’t go during the tax-free days to avoid the crowds, but we had no choice this time as we both wanted to choose the kids’ clothes. I realized that day that Gap now sucks. They wouldn’t let me just exchange Eenan’s polo shirt. I didn’t have the receipt (Yadira forgot to give it to me), but they’ve exchanged his clothes before and now they have this stupid policy where they send you a check-by-mail and you won’t get it for weeks. Idiots.

Anyway we got them 3 screen-print T’s and some cargo pants at JCPenny. The shirts were buy one get one for $1–love when they have sales like that. We were looking for some cargo shorts since it’s hot over here till around November but most stores only had “Fall” clothes. We checked a few other stores, like the Children’s Place and nothing. The kids were getting antsy so Mario got them some cotton candy while I changed our payment date at JC Penny for a later time (since all our bills accumulate at the beginning of the month and we have the biggest payment–the car). We went to Old Navy next, where we found them a pair of painters shorts each. Then we went to Walmart for their socks and undies but we need to get Jaylen’s undies since they never have his size. I got a maternity blouse for myself. It’s one of those airy tunics; brown with light brown/teal beads around the collar.

Sorry for the smudgy quality. My lens was dirty and I didn’t know till after I took all the pics.

We went to Jorge and Maggie’s that night. Eenan finally went with us. Jaylen’s nose bled from both his nostrils. It freaks me out when he gets nose bleeds. Mario says he was the same way when he was little though and still occassionally gets nose bleeds when his nose is too dry. We stayed there till 11:30pm just talking about different things. We were supposed to order pizzas but I guess everyone forgot. On the way home we ordered from Whataburger and ate at 12 midnight O_o.

I had bills to pay so I appointed John to go with me while Mom watched the boys. I deposited money at the bank, then went to Ross to hopefully find some maternity clothes. The crowds were much worse on Saturday since all the people from Mexico were here shopping. I’d still rather fight the crowds to find nice, inexpensive maternity clothes though. I can’t justify spending $20-$30 a blouse at those big maternity stores.

After browsing through the one rack of Small clothes I ended up with 3 blouses and 1 pair of black cargo pants. I wanted more, but I had a budget so I didn’t spend any more. They have such cute Halloween stuff and so many nice bed sheets and comforters. I got some dinosaur sheets for Jaylen’s twin bed (whenever we get it) and a Pirates of the Caribbean Spy book for the boys to share.

Again, dirty lens=crappy pictures. Plus, my futon’s black and that’s where I hung the shirts for the pictures.

We went to JC Penny next, where I searched for parking for half an hour and couldn’t find anything. When I decided to stalk a couple who was coming out of the mall to take their parking space, this little skinny asshole stole my space! And he WAVED while doing it! I so wanted to get off my car and ring his pencil-neck or key his car, but decided I’d be the bigger person and move on. I ended up parking right in front of the door and told John to stay there in case a cop told him anything.

I paid our two bills there and then took our rings to get cleaned. Mario’s had to be resized and needed a diamond replaced. Total time for all this? 8 weeks! I have to be without my rings for 8 weeks. It’s Wednesday and my finger still feels naked :(.

We went to Walmart afterwards and got a few groceries and the house-cleaning necessities. On the way home I paid for our storage bill and thank God we were done.

The next day Mary treated us to the movies. We watched The Ant Bully. It was really cute. I told John when I got home that if I didn’t know any better that movie was made about him. He tortured ants most of his childhood.

We had a party to go to next. The decorations were so nice and the centerpieces were delicious–literally. It was a fruit bouquet and it was so good.

Fruit Bouquet

There’s my mom-in-law in the background, heh.

To make a long story short–I hated that party. They had this man entertaining the kids with games and all he spoke was Spanish and VERY broken English, so my boys didn’t understand a thing. They were so frustrated. They even tricked the parents into going over there and playing the games. There I am, pregnant, and I had to sit and pop balloons that the kids were bringing me so they could win a prize. And of course the bigger kids won instead. Mary finally ended up sneaking over to the prize table and “got them” some cute wooden boxes with crayons in them LOL.

It was also a sad weekend for some of our pets. We decided on Sunday that we definitely were giving Louie away. We’d decided last week that we’d give him another week to potty train and he refused. We woke up Sunday morning to find the kitchen and living room floors covered in poop and pee. That was it. It’s too unhealthy for me and the kids to be cleaning up poop all the time, so we called Yadira up and she found him a new owner right away.

And, since Choco Kitty had her kittens, my father-in-law and I had decided he was taking her and her babies to the ranch. We don’t have money to spay her right now, so instead Big Mario took her somewhere where they need lots of cats. The ranch has tons of mice, so they’ll do well there.

Mario had been on a lottery ticket kick and after losing $22 (yup, he spent THAT MUCH), he won $14 then $50 and then $12. He could make a living out of that. Kidding.

We went to a get together for Mario’s dad’s side of the family. Betty and Vanessa are pregnant as well and Vanessa’s having two boys! Betty’s hasn’t let itself be seen yet, but I’m pretty sure she’s hoping for a girl since she has two boys as well. It was nice seeing everyone.

As for the remodeling, they already threw on the texture and are ready to paint. We’ll be getting the paint this weekend. The huge 8 foot shelf I had with my 80s things on it and the kids’ books and movies has been emptied into bins. I’m PRAYING that they get those closets ready soon. I have the boys new school clothes hanging on the back of the couch since there’s no where else to put them and it looks so messy :(.

Today, I have to make some more calls to share the big news and later on we’re going to the movies. Fun, fun :).